Oneitis - What is it why most men suffer from it?

Hello brothers, ‘oneitis’ is something every man suffers at some point in his life. It stems from a strong blue pill conditioning and must absolutely be cured if a man is to ever unlock his true potential and become his strongest version.

In this article, I will cover -

1. What is a oneitis?

2. How does oneitis happen in men?

3. Oneitis vs "love"

If you were raised in a blue pill fantasy world, this is a good article to open your eyes and unplug you from all the lies so pay attention.

1. What is a oneitis ?

A “oneitis,” as it’s called, is when you have a soul-crushing obsession over a single woman in your life.

This can take the form of a girl friend. It can take the form of your wife. It can even take the form of a co-worker or a classmate.

In short, a oneitis is when you’re absolutely desperate for a particular girl’s approval. You can’t sleep without her, you can’t eat without her, and you can’t breathe without her. No matter how hard you try, you just can’t stop thinking about her.

Psychologists would call this severe codependency. It’s when you’re entirely dependent on someone else for your internal validation.

When you’re obsessed over a girl, sometimes it can be hard to see things straight. You end up doing things that you would normally never do, and acting like a completely different man. It’s almost like having a oneitis hijacks your brain, and turns you into a different person. You feel like your HAPPINESS as a man is entirely dependent on this person.

2. How does Oneitis happen in men?

This phenomena takes place for several reasons, which we will discuss in this article. The fundamental reason that a man gets a “oneitis” however, is that he places far too much importance onto a single woman, that is out of line with what the reality dictates.

In other words, it’s when you put the pussy on a pedestal. It’s when you think a woman is the end-all-be-all to every one of your problems. It’s when you idealize a woman, and fall in love with your idea of her, rather than the actual person herself.

Furthermore, there are several things which can leave a man vulnerable to this state of mind:

• Not having a strong masculine frame and higher purpose

• Lacking enough game to meet new women

• Not having a positive, emotionally healthy mindset

If any one of the previous three fundamentals are lacking, you will be susceptible to a oneitis. As we go through this article, we will discuss exactly why you need these things, and how to develop them if you haven’t already done so. 

3. Oneitis vs "Love"

For all you guys who have followed my content for a while know my views on love. I think it is highly overrated especially when I see it from the red pill lens and having a great interest in evolutionary biology and psychology. However, all that being said, love does exist, just not in a way it has been defined in the movies and books by this blue pill society.

A man loves a woman who is a point or 2 below his sexual market value (smv), checks at least 7/10 boxes of his requirements of a beautiful feminine woman and who is TRAINABLE so that she has the capacity and willingness to learn from him and check those remaining boxes that her man requires her to check in order to be the "love" of his life.

Anyway coming back to the topic of Oneitis - when inexperienced guys fall for a woman and have a oneitis for her, the often mistake it for "love" (not the definition I just gave above for love but the blue pill idea of "unconditional love")

Oneitis makes you weak, but love makes you strong. Oneitis drains you emotionally, but love improves your state. Oneitis reeks of neediness, love is interdependent. The two are very, very different—however most men often end up conflating the two, much to their suffering.

So fellas, the logical step is to recognize if you suffer from Oneitis and if you do, you now know how to get rid of it ASAP!

I don’t want to make these essays too long, so in the next article I will cover exactly how to get rid of Oneitis in 5 simple steps. It absolutely works for every single man, we have done it for men from all different parts of the world where we have mentored them and helped get rid of this horrible issue.

In the meantime, if you read this article and realize you are one of those guys who suffers from it, I highly recommend reading the ebook below which my friend and I created inspired from this exactly problem faced by many men around the world. This book will transform you from an emotional wreck to a hardcore beast. Reading this book will be one of the best decisions of your life.

And as always,

Impact, don't impress!🦁

-Coach B2A