What is Masculine Frame - A deep dive [Part 1]

Hello my brothers,

This is Part 1 of the "Masculine Frame" series. In this article I will cover the following topics -

1. What really is a masculine frame?

2. Why is it so important for a man to have a masculine frame?

So let's go over both these topics one by one -

1. Masculine Frame : What is it?

Your masculine frame is the way you carry yourself. And it’s not just how you walk down the street with your head high and your chest up (although it's a good start).  A man with a masculine frame can handle situations like a strong man is supposed to handle them.

Unfortunately, most men of today lack a masculine frame.  There has been a massive decline in strong, male role models for young men to look up to, both in their personal lives and in media.

Importance of a strong male role model -

A manly father makes a huge difference in a young man’s life.  He teaches him how a man handles situations, how to hold himself, and how to take on challenges that emerge.  Even having uncles around can teach men how to be men as they grow up.

But without a strong male role model, most men lack the upbringing to become masculine.  They have no idea how a man should act.

And it’s not just neutral.  Because there’s no neutral in life. A boy without an alpha dad is going to grow up learning how to be a man from a woman or a beta male.  He has a huge disadvantage compared to other men with strong fathers.  The boy that has a feminine father, or just a mother, is going to pick up the traits that those people posses.

There are some men who are the outliers and take control of their lives, despite not having a father or father-like figure.  But even then, there’s usually an uncle, a cousin, a brother, or even a TV character like JAMES BOND or superhero like THOR they can model after.  Some of these outliers become some of the most masculine men around.

AN ARMY OF BETAS:

For every 1 male without a father who becomes ultra masculine due to survival, there’s another 10 that become softer than a man is supposed to be.  So the net outcome is we have a ton of males without any masculine frame.

Without any kind of strong male influence, a child has little chance of developing a masculine frame as he ages.

Which means he has testosterone and the biology of a man, but he doesn’t know how to properly channel this.   Some guys get a grandfather, uncles, cousins, or even guy in their neighborhood that can fill that role.  But if a boy has no male role model, let alone a father, then he’s usually modeling himself after a female.  That’s what kids do.  They copy the parents and other humans around them.  That’s how they learn to speak, to communicate, and how to conduct themselves.

And if there’s no man around, it’s not just a neutral situation where he models no one.  If there’s not a father, and there’s no source of masculine energy present in his life, he’s screwed.  He’s going to copy his mother or the women around him.

While great mothers are essential for children, boys modeling their mothers gives you a generation of weak men.

2. Importance of Masculine Frame for a MAN

Without a masculine frame, a man won’t have any control over his life.  He’ll likely be a beta, always working a job he hates, being passive, and never living up to his true potential.  If he’s able to grow his masculine energy, but have no masculine frame, then he’ll never have control of himself.  Which can lead him to prison or down other roads that ultimately will lead to his downfall.

A man with a masculine frame is able to be a man, be strong, and be powerful, yet able to handle his emotions.  He’s cool, calm, collected, and he’s extremely confident.  Women can sense his manhood and respond well to his aura.  Men either respect or hate him.  Sometimes both.  Younger men and boys will admire this man.

Having a masculine frame simply means that you’re able to walk through life as a man.  You can be calm when needed, or take aggressive action when needed.

I will limit this post to a short introduction. In the next article - Part 2 we will see how to hold/maintain a dominant masculine frame in ANY SITUATION (3 step process) so stay tuned!

And as always,

Impact, don't impress!🦁

-Coach B2A