The Madonna or the whore?

Women Classification : Short term vs Long term material

Hello readers, this is an important article for some of you advanced players who get hookups and some potential "good" girls every now and then but don't know how to classify them early on. If you treat a hoe like your girl, she will finesse the shit out of you and leave, if you treat a good chick like a hoe, you will lose her and regret it. One of the biggest indication of having good Game is a guy's ability to classify a chick into one of the 2 buckets - short term hookup material and long term relationship potential either right away based on her dating profile or at least after having sex with her for the first time.

This skill will save you a LOT of time when dealing with chicks because you will know exactly how to switch up your game based on this classification very early on in the interaction.

Here are some typical signs she is a short term smash material (belongs to the streets) vs long term relationship potential - 

1. Personality (determined pre or post sex):

Short term - Her dating profile/Instagram is boring and seems to indicate an IQ of a 10 year old kid. Her beauty to personality ratio should ideally be 100:0 (dumb hot bitch) or max around 90:10. For a short term pump and dump, you want her to be really stupid and dumb. I can't even recollect how many dumb bitches I have fucked this year alone, they are the easiest to move on from.

Long term - She is not only cute but her dating profile has some witty humor and shows high IQ. A sure way to separate her from a short term hookup material is if you took her pictures away, something about her profile still made you smile or think twice indicating good sense of humor and/or intelligence. Her beauty to personality ratio should be around 70:30 if she is to be considered a long term potential.

2. How she makes you feel (determined post sex):

Short term  - You guys met recently and hooked up, you just can't wait to tell you boys that you fucked this hot chick. If it is the ONLY thing that comes to mind when you think about her, she is a short term hookup girl, fuck her until either one of you is bored of the other and things organically die out.

Long term - You guys met recently, had a date and ended up smashing. The following day you wake up next to her, smiling at you in your bed. Before you got out of bed she had already made a cup of coffee for you and placed it by the nightstand. You head to the bathroom to freshen up and you see it has been cleaned tidied up by her. You can't wait to INTRODUCE her to your friends (someday). If these are the thoughts you have after smashing her, this chick surely has a long term potential.

3. Facial features  : 

Short term - This is an easy scenario. Her face is not very pretty but her body is smoking hot. In this case you know right away that you still wanna bang this chick but she is not pretty enough to be your arm candy at a party or a networking event. She isn't someone you can introduce to your friends as your girl. In other words my friend, she is pump and dump material.

Long term - Her body is decent but she has a really cute face and smile. When she is next to you in a networking event or a party she looks like a respectable woman and she doesn't embarrass you. She is someone you would proudly introduce to your friends as your girl. This girl could be a long term potential.

4. Your fantasies about her 

Short term - You feel no shame or guilt when fantasizing about fucking her when she is away. In fact whenever you think of her, she gives you a boner and all you wanna do is fuck her brains out. You don't give a shit about any text messages from her, when she is away. When you fantasize about her, you think of the nastiest and the most perverted things you wanna do to her in bed. 

Long term - whenever you fantasize about her, it's usually more romantic and an over dramatized setting. You still get a hard on and absolutely wanna bang her but your fantasies about her are more PG-13 and pure. It's more like a passionate lovemaking fantasy rather  than facefucking that bitch. This is because in your mind, you have categorized her as a long term potential mate and you see her more than a piece of meat.

5. How you describe your sex life to your friends

Short term - You wanna brag about every degrading and disgusting thing you did with her in the bedroom to your friends. You call her that hot "bitch" instead of her name when you refer her to your friends. She is short term and nothing but a sex toy to you who you will dump at some point (unless she will get rid of you first, that happens quite often with promiscuous women if I am being very real)

Long term - You still do all the kinky, perverted, degrading stuff in the bedroom but you are not waiting to say it to your friends, in fact you will HIDE these details from them because she has a potential to be your girl someday and it would reduce her value in your social circle (thereby your own) if everyone knows what a slut she can be in bed. This is a big sign that you are considering her long term and you don't even know it.

6. COACHABILITY 

Short term - She can be highly opinionated and annoying, have a drinking problem, be lazy and not workout but as long as she is sexy as hell who gives a fuck! Yes, there are many girls who are just naturally sexy despite all these bad habits, when they are young. It's only when they hit their 30s is when the effects of all these bad habits begin to take a toll on their body. So as a man who is interested in a woman long term, one of the things that you wanna look out for is whether you can coach these bad habits out of her so she maintains a sexy body for you in the long term. If she isn't willing to listen to you and change these habits, she is NOT COACHABLE and that is a big red flag. Smash her in the short term when she is hot, dump her when you are done.

Long term - She has a few bad habits that you don't like- excessive drinking and not working out. You guys have sex a couple times, she begins to really like and respect you. You bring up these bad habits to her and she is open/receptive to it, agrees with you because SHE WANTS TO PLEASE YOU. This kinda girl is coachable and that is a HUGE GREEN FLAG. Despite her few bad habits, you know she respects and listens to you, you can mould her in a way you want her to be in the long term so she is worth considering a relationship with in the future.

That's it fellas, these are some of the points you must keep in mind when dealing with a girl early on so you can classify very clearly in your mind whether you are gonna smash her and leave or build something together with her in the long run. 

And as always,

Impact, don't impress!

- Coach B2A